Loving What Is

Loving What Is

Four Questions That Can Change your Life

Book - 2002
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Out of nowhere, like a fresh breeze in a marketplace crowded with advice on what to believe, comes Byron Katie and what she calls "The Work." In the midst of a normal life, Katie became increasingly depressed, and over a ten-year period sank further into rage, despair, and thoughts of suicide. Then one morning, she woke up in a state of absolute joy, filled with the realization of how her own suffering had ended. The freedom of that realization has never left her, and now in Loving What Is you can discover the same freedom through The Work. The Work is simply four questions that, when applied to a specific problem, enable you to see what is troubling you in an entirely different light. As Katie says, "It's not the problem that causes our suffering; it's our thinking about the problem." Contrary to popular belief, trying to let go of a painful thought never works; instead, once we have done The Work, the thought lets go of us. At that point, we can truly love what is, just as it is. Loving What Is will show you step-by-step, through clear and vivid examples, exactly how to use this revolutionary process for yourself. You'll see people do The Work with Katie on a broad range of human problems, from a wife ready to leave her husband because he wants more sex, to a Manhattan worker paralyzed by fear of terrorism, to a woman suffering over a death in her family. Many people have discovered The Work's power to solve problems; in addition, they say that through The Work they experience a sense of lasting peace and find the clarity and energy to act, even in situations that had previously seemed impossible. If you continue to do The Work, you may discover, as many people have, that the questioning flows into every aspect of your life, effortlessly undoing the stressful thoughts that keep you from experiencing peace. Loving What Is offers everything you need to learn and live this remarkable process, and to find happiness as what Katie calls "a lover of reality." From the Hardcover edition.
Publisher: New York : Harmony Books, c2002
ISBN: 9780609608746
0609608746
Characteristics: xxvi, 258 p
Additional Contributors: Mitchell, Stephen 1943-

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sunshinebunni7
Sep 06, 2016

This book came recommended but I wouldn't do the same. Interesting to read but the format reads as a "script" from a talk show and is a repetitive narrative so doesn't really go anywhere. Read one chapter you've pretty much read the book.....there are much better books out there to invest time in.

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Persnickety77
Jul 28, 2016

This book is not a substitute for therapy, but its simple method is a great way to help people in mental pain think about their emotions in a different way, and start dealing with them

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criticallyminded
Mar 07, 2016

This book is utter garbage. Read at your own risk.

It is pseudo therapy created by a woman with no therapeutic credentials and a one-size fits all solution.

Watch out for victim blaming, there's loads of it.

Sick and twisted.

"http://mortentolboll.weebly.com/a-critique-of-byron-katie-and-her-therapeutic-technique-the-work.html"

This article sums up the numerous flaws in Katie's logic.

If you are looking for books about dealing with abuse, look at the work of Patricia Evans and Lundy Bancroft.

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Gregorywall
Aug 24, 2012

"Judge you neighbor, write it down, ask four questions turn it around."

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